In English please!, qui potete parlare in qualsiasi lingua ma nn in italiano!!

I am not a fortune teller and I am not cursed by premonitions, but I think Moky is right!

So... Dave, what are you going to do?

Hard to say...but I'm going to think VERY WELL about it...I mean if I don't want to go on with uni, I'm going to stop it instead of complaining!and sure...I'm going to take your advice: don't give a damn about what other people wish me to do!

I should hope so Moky!
Anyway thanks ladies...for advices and for the relpies to my questions!'cause knowing you better was very important to me...!!
See u!

go Dave go!!!

we were talking about Men&Women dave..

you said: "non mi spaventa essere messo in riga...però soccombere o annullarsi x una donna è un pò troppo!......alcuni si spaventano e fuggono, altri (e qui mi ci metto pure io...)si sforzano ma ogni tanto sgarrano xkè il nostro modo di essere ci impedisce di essere esattamente come voi ci volete!"


You got it! Who the hell tells you have to let any decision to US? Do I have to tell my boyfriend what to do with his life job etcc?! Why me? Why men are not able to take responsabilities? I tried so hard to persuade my ex to make friends, to have a bit of a life of his own, and not wait for me awake at home till 4.00am while I was hanging with my friends! He wanted me not to underrestimate him, but he never try to have guts, never! Finally he told me he couldn't stand anymore a life like this, always fearing my opinion about him, always feeling he wasn't good enough. He never said "I'll try to be a better man", everything was about my opinion about him. I used to be shy (nobody believes me when I say that), I WAS shy, but I didn't like myself the way, so I changed. Who knows me - in person - think I am a "rock", but I am a strong person because I wanted to be like I am now. Men never fight, they never try and try again, they give up without fighting. I am used to never give up until I have what I want, never stop, never complain. Never met a man like this.

Aaah, I feel releaved! I have to say "loss of will" is not a male prerogative, I met a lot of weak women and girls too...
Dave do not hate me, that is MY opinion, based on my experience. (si è capito qualcosa di quello ke ho scritto?! è difficile in italiano, figurarsi in un'altra lingua!)

WoooooooooooooW! I love this thread!
i'm a kind of "english language lover".......everytime I hear someone speaking that, you can see my face like addicted

Hooray! Another one bold enough to post here!!!

Hey!!! of course not darling!
Laurie the point is that men need to toe the line, and in order to do it they need a woman! isn’t matter of responsibility…up to us life is a game, without important problems…but when we meet a woman…things change!!
You become our life and we start to be a little bit different…yeah, still ourselves!! do u know what I mean?
Anyway we help each other to face the real world…and according to me that’s what love is for! (If we’re talking about REAL LOVE…)
You Laurie rock because you can count on you…because of your strong personality cause you know who you are, what you want…you’re a woman, you’re an adult….but men, well we wont grow alone!!!
I saw myself without girlfriend: a careless boy who needs only to have fun (every kind of fun), with girls, friends, drugs…nothing else…..so in my opinion girls make us better if we really like them…trust me!!
And girls need us too, in order to grow in another way!!!….and it’s not bad….

Edited by HouseTotalFan - 6/10/2005, 15:38

no way I am an adult! You have to see me to understand I am childish enough!! I've never said I am strong and wise, cause I am not. People think I am strong because they see the surface. I am like anyone else, the difference is my will! I want to be strong, so I am. I want to do the right thing, never let down a friend, never lie, never cheat. That's my credo. But I cried the day my boyfriend and I split up, like anyone else would! I never call back, cause deceivers do not deserve another chance! That's it!!

Dave you are right, people need each other to grow up! At least to learn they can trust no one...! A feel a bit like House right now!!

I agree.. I believe a couple need friends, even separate friends, and they need to hang with friends not as a couple. I let you go out with your friends and vice versa! I never let my boyfriend to disagree, and he did not. But I do see my girlfriends are unable to go out alone.. are you retarded or what? You cannot go out and have a drink without your boyfriend?!! This behaviour always drive me nuts!

Ps: I am not a 42, I am not a skinny girl and proud not to be one!! I don't like skinny girls with flat breasts and I don't like to see boys' bones! They are freaking! And I dont like tanned people and Italian girls & boys who bleach their hair blonde! Stop being all alike! Be yourself!!